If amorous comedy are synonymous with anyone , it ’s writer - director Nora Ephron , whose watershed moviesWhen Harry Met Sally … ,Sleepless in Seattle , andYou’ve Got Mailare widely accredit withsaving the wild-eyed comedy genre . But beyond that , Ephron was a whizz in her own right , compose prolifically about her experience of being a woman , from the seventies up until the meter of her death in 2012 from pneumonia convey on by acute myeloid leukaemia .

In accolade of what would have been Ephron ’s 80th natal day on May 19th , below are some fun facts about the creator ’s life and work .

1. Nora Ephron was fictionalized from an early age.

Ephron made her life telling other citizenry ’s stories , but she ’s instigate some , too — go steady back to her adolescent year . Ephron ’s parents , Hollywood screenwriters Phoebe and Henry Ephron , establish their 1961 playand subsequent filmTake Her , She ’s Mineon letters Nora sent place while attending Wellesley College .

2. Nora Ephron broke into journalism in a unique way.

Ephron aspired from a immature years to be two things : A diary keeper experience in New York City andthe next Dorothy Parker . After college , Ephron scored a job atNewsweekas a mail girlfriend , buther big breakcame when her Quaker Victor Navasky asked her to pen a parody of Leonard Lyons’sNew York Postcolumn forMonocle .

" When thePest(get it ? ) , a perfect visual replica of the paper , come out , the editors at thePostwanted to sue,“Navasky wrotein a piece about Ephron following her death forThe Nation . " But Dorothy Schiff , the owner , order ' If they can spoof us , they can write for us , ' and one week into a two - week trial , they rent Nora . "

Ephron ’s stint atNewsweekwould subsequently be a highlightof the Amazon dramaGood Girls Revolt .

Nora Ephron arrives at a screening of Julie & Julia in Westwood, California, in 2009.

3. Nora Ephron once found herself in the crosshairs of the women’s liberation movement.

4.When Harry Met Sally…wasn’t written for the reason you’d expect.

AlthoughWhen Harry Met Sally … is now synonymous with themodern day rom - com , Ephron ’s ground for writing it were , well , lessthan romantic . She wrote openly inher essay“My Life As An Heiress ” about writing the film for the money , andwould recent blanche at the ideathat she might one twenty-four hour period become “ some queen of romanticism . ” In 2006Ephron admittedthat romanticist comedies are “ almost all I ’ve been able to get made , ” suggesting a contrast between the view of Ephron ’s films and Ephron herself .

5. Nora Ephron made a cameo inSleepless in Seattle.

Or her phonation did , at least . Ephron can be heardcalling into Dr. Marcia Fieldstone ’s radio show as “ frustrated in Denver , ” lamenting to the radio host , “ Every time I come close to orgasm , he proceed to make himself a sandwich . ” Disappointed , indeed .

6. Nora Ephron had a complicated—but lucrative—relationship with technology.

On herfamed list of things“I Wo n’t Miss ” after she passed away , Ephron included email not once , but doubly , writing “ I know I already allege it , but I want to emphasize it . ” Despite her patronage for the electronic format , Ephron made e-mail the linchpin ofYou’ve Got Mail , a idle remaking of Ernst Lubitsch’sThe Shop Around the Corner(1940 ) , andone of Ephron ’s most successful films .

Ephron also documented her struggle withan onlineScrabbleaddiction , sayingScrabble Blitzturned her brain to “ cheese . ” No matter how Ephron feel about engineering science , though , she knew it was the wave of the future and enthrone sagely , doubling the expected valueof her acres with investments in Apple , Google , and Amazon .

7. Nora Ephron planned her own funeral.

Ephron was known to have an exacting nature — and with serious rationality . “ The problem with Nora is that she ’s right-hand about almost everything , all the time,”You’ve receive Mailassociate producer Dianne Dreyeronce said . Ephron ’s own funeral was no exception . Prior to her last , the three - time Oscar nomineereserved $ 100,000to pay for the occasion , which was held at Alice Tully Hall , anddecided on everythingfrom the solid food ( a perfectly prepared brisket ) to the speakers ( Meryl Streep , Mike Nichols , and more ) and how long each of them had to babble out .

8. Somewhere out there, there’s a cookbook full of Nora Ephron’s favorite recipes.

If Ephron was jazz for anything beyond her impeccable wit , it washer love of food , which often made its way into her writing . An accomplished chef in her own right , shebestowed her stuffy family member and friendswith an original Nora Ephron cookbook when she passed away . It contains 174 of her recipes and isolated observations — certainly a giving that would keep on gift . The rest of us , however , will have to settle forthis one Monkey Bread formula , which was said to be her favorite breakfast .

Nora Ephron poses during a 1978 portrait session in Los Angeles.